I remember eating mashed potatoes on the sunporch at my friend Allison’s house. We were sitting cross-legged on the floor, huddled around a wicker coffee table, our plates just inches from our mouths. There was other food, I’m sure, chicken or maybe meatloaf or some other forgotten piece of protein I’d pushed to the side to make room for the Halasa family mashed potatoes. I’d started with a mountain of them, yellow from the excessive butter content and so dense they required I carry the paper plate two-handed to our roost at the kids’ table.
Sitting there on the floor with my girlfriends, I momentarily admired the mass on my plate, eager and anxious, before bringing one mounding forkful of those creamy, lumpless potatoes to my mouth. I delicately slid the fork between my lips, twitterpated as my eyes squeezed closed and the warmth of the potatoes coated my tongue and throat. After each bite, I’d drag the edge of my fork over the potatoes, smoothing out the craters, like a Zamboni methodically perfecting the surface of an ice rink.
Moderation was a mystery to me, and each swallow brought me simultaneous pleasure and nausea; I was powerless to the potatoes. Forget meat sweats, I was fighting carb-induced hysteria. As I battled my inner ever-present demons of gluttony, I placed my fork on the table, letting my fingers linger on the warm metal while the internal turmoil waged on. Abruptly, I jerked my fingers away from the fork and scooped up the remaining mashed potatoes with a cupped right hand. I brought them to my mouth, hesitating for just a moment at my lips, questioning and confused, when a brash flash of clarity zapped through my mind and I quickly and swiftly smeared the mashed potatoes across my right cheek, followed immediately by a scoopful slathered across the left. It was fast, like an impatient father slapping sunscreen on a squirming toddler, and when I lifted my potato-masked face I found two silent, slightly horrified teenage girls staring at me.
Unlike most people, when I say something is so good, I want to smear it all over my face, I’m speaking from hands-on experience. I know exactly what it takes to trigger that sort of primal action. I know the complete lack of self-control delicious food can cause. I know what potatoes can do to a girl.
Of all the sessions at the 2013 International Food Blogger Conference, my favorite was Kim O’Donnel’s interactive writing workshop, which focused on breaking through writer’s block by reminding us that we all have something to write about, the trick is starting small-scale. We started with “I remember” and then rapidly jotted down as many memories as we could conjure over the course of three minutes. ”I remember eating mashed potatoes on the sunporch at my friend Allison’s house” was one of many memories on my list, and I’m so happy to finally have this specific memory written on the blog.
I would like to send one last HUGE thank you to Truly Good Foods for sponsoring my attendance at the IFBC! Truly Good Foods specializes in premium snack mixes, raw and freshly roasted nuts and seeds, dried fruit, and hundreds of bulk and packaged candies, spices, grains and specialty foods. Truly Good Foods has an extensive line of retail branded products, including Grabeez®, Buffalo Nuts® and Dip & Devour Dipping Chocolates.
What is it about getting a package in the mail that makes me squeal with excitement? Just the sight of a box on my doorstep makes a Cheshire cat smile spread across my face. As I carry the box inside I start playing the guessing game. I wonder what’s inside? Who’s it from? I know I ordered a book on Amazon four days ago, and since this is an Amazon box that’s probably what’s inside… but maybe it isn’t?! (p.s. it was.)
I think this package induced excitement is a large part of the allure and success of online shopping because deep down we’re all little kids dying to tear through that brown mailing paper. Occasionally (when I find a free shipping promotion) I’ll partake in an online shopping spree and buy hundreds of dollars of clothes only to return each and every piece at my local mall the following weekend. When will I learn that nothing I buy online fits? Even if I buy one of every size available, one size will inevitably be too small and the next size up is absurdly large. And since they don’t make clothes in half sizes… Yes, it all goes back. (My sincere apologies to both Banana Republic and the Limited for the large deficits I’ve created in your sales figures over the years.)
I recently realized this obsession with packages was a little pathetic (and neurotic), so I starting seeking other more respectable means of receiving packages in the mail. I considered Cravebox and my local CSA, but decided both of those required too much commitment. Then I found my answer: Foodie Penpals. The concept is simple—you send a package full of foodie goodies to your assigned foodie penpal, and then a different foodie sends you a package too.
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Fervent Foodie is a contributing writer for the official Urbanspoon blog.
I’m three bites into my shrimp fajitas at a new (to me) Mexican restaurant, when the waitress appears at the table inquiring how the meal tastes. I pause, wiping my mouth as a stall mechanism, while I frantically try to piece together words and form a polite response. A simple “it’s good” is all I can muster. She smiles and walks away. I frown. The shrimp’s fishy odor, which arrived at the table well before the plate, lingers over me like a putrid fog. The menu touted fajitas with onions and peppers, but…
A month or so ago, I was piddling away evening hours on Facebook when something caught my eye in a big way—Urbanspoon, the leading online local restaurant guide (and a resource I use religiously), was seeking bloggers for the official Urbanspoon blog. What! A crazy excitement washed over me, and with blazing eyes and a butterfly filled belly I began furiously typing an application letter. I introduced myself and my blog and my deep passion for carbohydrates. I wrote about my love of Urbanspoon and how I am both a long-time user and contributor on the site. I flaunted my Urbanspoon Prime status, and even though I couldn’t visually emphasize that elite status with sprightly jazz fingers, the page was sparkly enough to imply them.
That was the easy part.
Then the hysteria began to diminish and the self-doubt speak started flowing. Was anyone even going to look at this thing? There had to be thousands of applicants… What am I doing? My shoulders hunched, but I trudged onward and began to plead. If selected, I promised not only homemade chocolate chip cookies but also a 5-course Italian dinner, complete with my famous tomato basil bruschetta and Amazeball’s meatballs (of course, famous here is used in relative terms). I sat and stared at the blinking cursor on the screen. It didn’t seem like enough–it wasn’t enough. I had no choice but to level with them, so I wrote “If given the opportunity to be a blogger for Urbanspoon, I’d probably poop my pants (in a good way, if that’s possible).”
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Back in college, I would often carry a banana in the front pocket of my pea coat, like a yellow edible pocket square. This was back before energy bars were all the rage, and my banana was not only all-natural but also quirky and cute and totally college (trust me). I was always prepared with a snack on hand, should I have to miss lunch for a study date (or a nap in the student center). To this day, I still open my banana from the bottom (the end without the stem), just like my mom.
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There are frozen yogurt shops everywhere. Every plaza, shopping center, and mall has one–literally within feet of each other. Recently, a friend asked me where he could find good ice cream in town. I told him, “heck if I know.” All I can find around here is frozen yogurt. It disgusts me. Hipsters across America are killing ice cream one ounce of fro-yo at a time.
I had my first frozen yogurt experience last year after moving to Charlotte. I fell right into the fro-yo trap. It’s healthy? Shut up! Let’s fill this pint-sized bowl to the top! Since it’s healthy it won’t hurt to try a little spoonful of each of the 37 varieties of toppings. Heath, sprinkles, Oreos, peanut butter sauce, cookie dough bites, butter finger, bits of cake, a hunk of brownie, and a swirl of hot fudge (if you’re lucky enough to find a fro-yo shop that carries it), and since we’re being healthy here, let’s throw on some blueberries and mochi (even though I have no clue what the heck mochi is, but it’s trendy so it must be good for me… right?!).
I fell hard. It wasn’t quite love, but it was definitely topping lust. I carried my overflowing bowl to a table outside and surveyed my masterpiece in the sunlight. I took my first bite–it was all toppings, and it was undeniably amazing. Then, I took a second bite, making sure to get a good yogurt-to-toppings ratio. I sat there, with a mouth full of god knows what, confused, wondering if I had, in fact, just paid money for the stuff. As it melted in my mouth, I sketched out a mental list of pros and cons. In the pro column, it was cold, just like ice cream. And….? Was that it? I felt empty. IT felt empty. There were so many ice crystals that I was certain the fro-yo was freezer burnt. It was just… wrong. Yogurt is smooth and creamy, so why wasn’t the frozen version? It didn’t take long for the eater’s remorse to kick in. I realized that all those toppings I’d piled on had substantially negated the whole “healthy” concept, and, worst of all, it wasn’t even good.
That evening, I put frozen yogurt on my HATE list (right after eggplant, olives, and Miracle Whip).
A few weeks back, my friends Jaci and Tim came to visit. We were skipping down the sidewalk giddy from laughter (due to some especially good wine at Wooden Vine), when Jaci said something along the lines of “oooh we should get fro-yo tonight!” I grabbed her arm and pulled her to a stop, all the happiness draining from my face, and said, “I’m going to pretend this conversation never happened, Jaci.” She just stared at me, as if she expected my skin to turn green and my muscles to rip through my clothes hulk-style as I pounded my chest and howled painfully toward the sky.
I can be scary sometimes. Just ask Tim.
Some people make the fro-yo health argument, stating frozen yogurt is better because it’s low fat. This is true, but here’s the thing: frozen yogurt is not health food–it’s full of sugar (having more grams per serving than ice cream, without factoring in any toppings) and thus it is a treat, just like ice cream. It’s also important to note that the fat content in ice cream helps to slow down the body’s absorption of sugar. If I’m going to have a treat (and trust me I’m going to) I want it to be the real deal–one scoop of rich, creamy, decadent ice cream.
Come on people! We need to band together and save ice cream in America. Who’s with me?
*If you are lactose intolerant please disregard the rant above.